When Love Isn't Enough

i'm real big on the thought that you have to accept people as they are. it doesn't mean that you don't want them to grow and be the best they can be, or even that you aren't willing to assist in that process, but you have to look at where folks are and make the determination if where they are right now fits with who you are and what benefits there are to maintaining a relationship. This thinking isn't exclusive to romantic relationships either. I think all positive relationships, at the end of the day, should leave you with a smile on your face. That being said, a positive relationship shouldn't leave you feeling that you're not good enough. I don't mean in that mushy way, like "oh he's so good to me, i don't deserve him", i mean in the way where you question if you actually hold any significance in this person's life, or a place in their heart. With that being said, sometimes, the way that others show love simply isn't enough, and i'm owning that there is nothing wrong with making that decision and moving on.